I am a lawyer and family law mediator practicing exclusively in the area of family law. Through my practice as a lawyer, I watched families go through separation and divorce and, in doing so, exhaust themselves emotionally and financially. The adversarial process can be very expensive and time consuming and it can destroy families because of increased animosity and stress.  I did not like the role I had as a lawyer because I often felt that I was perpetuating that animosity and furthering a destructive process.


The reality is that parents must continue to talk about their children’s medical appointments, attend soccer games, and sit beside one another years down the road at their child’s graduation ceremony.  Those without children may also be motivated to maintain an amicable relationship.  Any separation process should be able to fairly deal with the legal issues, but in a way that supports and empowers people to transition constructively into the post-separation plan they make for themselves.


This is why after 10 years of practicing as a regular family lawyer, I quit my job at the downtown family law firm I was working for, and I started doing things a bit differently.  By shifting the focus of the separation away from it being a fight about the past and onto it being about a plan to move forward, I feel like I am helping people through their separation in a positive way.

I obtained a Bachelor of Commerce degree from the University of Calgary in 2001 and a Bachelor of Laws degree from the University of Victoria in 2005. I have practiced family law exclusively since I was called to the British Columbia bar in 2006. I am member of the Law Society of British Columbia and an accredited Family Law Mediator through the Law Society of British Columbia. I am a member of the Civil and Family Rosters of Mediate BC.

  • Family Roster of Mediate BC
  • Civil Roster of Mediate BC
  • Family Mediation Canada
  • British Columbia Arbitration and Mediation Institute (BCAMI)
  • International Academy of Collaborative Professionals (IACP)
  • Victoria Collaborative Family Separation Professionals
  • Canadian Bar Association
  • Victoria Bar Association
  • Canadian Bar Association Victoria Family Law Section
  • Canadian Bar Association Alternative Dispute Resolution Section


Rebecca F. Alleyne
Lawyer and Mediator

map-icon201 – 1842 Oak Bay Avenue
Victoria, BC V8R 1C2
phone-iconTelephone: 250-595-0323
Facsimile: 250-595-3328

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Directions & Parking

Our office is located at the corner of Oak Bay Avenue and Fell Street.  There is free street parking for shorter pre-mediation meetings with Rebecca.  For longer sessions, please look for longer term parking at the Robbins parkade on Oak Bay Avenue and Bank Street (on the same block as our office).  There is also free parking on the street between Bank Street and Fell Street on Leighton Road.